What I Wish Clients Knew Before Booking Me
What I Wish Clients Knew Before Booking Me
There’s a lot that goes into being an escort—way more than most people imagine. Behind every date is time, energy, emotional labor, grooming, boundaries, communication, planning, space management and a whole damn human.
So here it is. If you’ve ever thought about booking me, or you’re already a regular—this is what I wish you knew before we met.
🕰️ 1. My time is valuable—before, during, and after the booking.
When you contact me, I’m already working. Not with "someone else" necessarily, i have a full life with a vibrant career, passions and commitments out of April time. I work in Event planning, Cinema/Tv Shows and Fashion... a very full schedule! In April time, I’m screening, communicating with you but also various parties (renting incalls, planing duos, checking restos and activities), checking schedules, getting into the right mindset, preparing my space or travel, making sure I feel sexy and safe.
If you respect my boundaries and time, I promise I’ll give you the most intentional, electric experience possible.
*I'm often late. I don't do it on purpose, i swear. Life has a way of throwing a last curve ball before i leave work, on the road or when i get home. I'm never late late, but i'm also never "on time". My friends call it being on "April Time"...
💌 2. I’m not a fantasy robot—I’m a real person.
Yes, I can fulfill your fantasies. But I’m also a human being with feelings, needs, and limits. The best experiences happen when we meet as people first, not porn scripts. My website is full of details to it easier to navigate and communicate what you want and desire, but i'm not ( anymore) a pornstar that will do a full cirque du soleil act on your genitals. I'm a person. I love intense, passionate sex with clearly established limits and boundaries. When we are in person, it's not the right moment to pop out a new surprise demand and put me on the spot. I also don't appreciate being chocked, spanked or have my hair pulled if its not something we discussed previously. Anything that wasn't disclosed before will make me lose trust in you.
Be kind. Be curious. Be open. I’ll meet you with everything I’ve got when you show up with respect.
🔐 3. Discretion is for both of us.
I take your privacy seriously—and I expect the same. Don’t share my photos, name, or details with anyone. If you know my real identity, respect it and keep it as a secret. Don’t try to “find” me on social media. Don't try to force out of work encounters, don't hangout at spots i mentioned liking with intentions of meeting me. Don't act with entitlement.
What we share stays just between us.
🔥 4. Chemistry isn’t guaranteed—but connection can be.
You might dream of something wild and intense—and it might happen. But it might also be slower, sweeter, or quieter than you imagined. Let it unfold naturally.
Trust me: what we build together will be far hotter than anything forced. I'm a wild little creature, i'm always down for a good time. Just don't force it.
💳 5. Yes, this is real work.
This is a career. I file taxes. I set boundaries, screen clients, and prioritize safety. Every booking represents about 90 mins of labour behind the scenes : Preparing the space, Cleaning after, Restocking Supplies, Washing, Upkeep of toys and gear, the messages, etc.
I rent a whole 2nd apartment with all it's fees (internet, heating, electricity, Ac, Furniture) to host you from.
I invest in my look, my vibe, my health, my availability—and in you.
I invest in quality lingerie, toys, bdsm gear and furniture, latex outfits, quality bedding and towels, photoshoots, content creation material, etc.
You aren't just paying for my time and intimacy, there are also so many other fees behind the cute facade. It's like any other business with expenses and revenues.
💘 6. I want us both to enjoy this.
This isn’t a transaction, even if there's a price tag—it’s an experience. When you treat me with warmth and respect, when you’re honest and open to my energy, we both win. I am here for me, not just for you. I show up as my most authentic self in everything i do. No one is forcing me to do this, i do this because i love doing it (i know it's a privilege). I will devote myself to the moment because i want to.
I don’t fake things. I don’t perform. I tune in.
And when you meet me there… it’s unforgettable.
I love this side of my life, i love to explore, i love to tease, it's just the best. And i want you to have the best of me.
🌹 Final Thoughts
I love what I do. I love connection, pleasure, and the strange little magic of two people meeting and creating their little untouchable bubble for a moment.
But I’m not a product.
I’m not a fantasy to consume.
I’m a person you get to co-create something beautiful with.
If that excites you…
Book me. HAHAHA!
xx
April Killian